Have you heard comments like the world is turning upside down? Or do you wonder why are there so many crises happening?

Depending on the quality of our support system, how we interpret our life experiences can vary drastically. 

When we consider situations deviating from the norm as “bad,” we lock ourselves in a box, blocking our creativity and preventing us from seeing a bigger picture.

Uncertainties can shake us up, turn our worlds upside down so that we can loosen up, freeing ourselves from the boxes we put ourselves in.

This shaking up process often brings huge opportunities for growth and opportunities. When we are intentional about stepping across the threshold, we will experience greater clarity, joy, and freedom in life.

A young mother contacted me recently because she started getting “messages” from loved ones who have passed on. This happened out of the blue, and it was such a new arena for her. 

Aside from the grief that got stirred up from losing her loved ones, she was losing her footing because she didn’t know how to work with spirits. On top of that, she was struggling with family members who thought she was going crazy.

Through our work together, she is able to reorient herself and develop new relationships with spirits. Instead of letting the visits from spirits take over her life, she is able to discern when to take actions and when to say no.

After going through a process I guided her, she said she felt her deceased cousin holding her hand like they used to as kids,

Instead of seeing her cousin being gone and feeling sad about it, she now has a more wholesome perspective on death. 

Our work together also helps her dissolve the emotional charge she had been carrying against her sister since they were kids. She can see the tension between her and her sister mimics that between her two daughters. 

Knowing that whatever she can’t resolve with the previous generations affects her children, she is motivated to resolve any stuck energy with her sister so that her daughters won’t need to struggle like she did.

This woman’s transformation also increases her confidence, allowing her to properly channel her gift so that she can comfort and support others who have lost their loved ones. 

What initially knocked her off her center turns out to be a great gift for her and those she touches. I see these ripple effects in me and my clients’ journeys a lot. 

Our fears often show up as avoidance, resistance, blaming or complaining. When we take responsibilities for our fears, we heal generations before and after. During the process, we get to uncover the treasures lying deep within us.

When I was preparing to leave my secured, well-paying job with great benefits to focus on this work, I was scared because the future was (and is) unknown. My mind kept saying I could lose everything that I had built. 

My chiropractor, one of my champions, kept telling me: 

If you take the leap, the net will show up. 

I could not fathom what the net would look like. What’s ahead was so different from my formal education and past experiences. 

I had been preparing myself for years to make this move. Yet when the time came, I still felt unprepared and overwhelmed.

Deep within me I knew I would be fine. It’s not about my abilities or credentials; it’s because if Divine Mother asked me to take this leap, there is a bigger plan and I would be guided and supported. 

If I didn’t, I also knew that I would encounter situations that would nudge me to get on the path that I was “designed” to be on. 

My own resistance to my soul path had created a lot of struggles; the Universe or Divine Mother really wants me to experience greater joy and abundance. But I must be willing to take the leap first!

It has been a year since I took the leap, and Life is unfolding miraculously. I could not have imagined how quickly my work would evolve once I got out of the “box.” I had thought I was fine and didn’t realize I was in a box in the first place!

Through my clients’ transformations, I see my role as the bridge between my clients and their ancestors. Through the process, my clients find the strength and wherewithal that they didn’t know they have.

It was not the career I asked for, but it is what I am guided to do. So I am surrendering to the assignment.

Whatever challenges and uncertainties you are facing, it is very likely that Life is inviting you to leap into the big unknown for more wholesome opportunities and life experiences. 

It is tempting to hang onto the cliff and refuse to jump because you don’t know what will happen on the other side. If you keep asking the Higher Intelligence, Spirit, or Your Soul to show you the way, you will get what you need and more!

I know this because my journey started over a decade ago when I felt so distressed that I didn’t want to live. I asked how could my life be worth living if I kept running into health issues, self-centered people and unfair work situations.

It has been the persistent self-inquiry that opens new doors, leading me to territories, people and synchronicities that support my growth and evolution.

When you ask “please help me see or experience this differently,” you are letting go of any preconceived notions of how it should be, you are allowing your innate wisdom and Higher Intelligence to lift the veil for you.

Little by little, you’ll see the next step, the next step, and the next step…

If you want to break out of the “box” and see what incredible openings are waiting for you, contact me for a 1/2-hour free consultation to see how I can support you to move along with greater ease and flow. 
 

With Great Blessings on Your Journey,

Carmen